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Funerals

We at St. Anthony of Padua want to express our sympathy at the loss of your loved one.  Our faith reminds us that our Lord is the God of all consolation!  He comforts us in all our afflictions, and enables us to comfort those who grieve with the same consolation we have received from Him.  May our compassionate Lord be with you in a special way during this time of grief.

If you need to contact us in an emergency please call 352 -588-3081.  If this is outside of office hours select the option to contact a priest on call. or by filling out the Funeral contact form, this form goes directly to the Pastor or priest on call.  During office hours please call the office so that we can immediately assist you.

The Church, through its funeral rites, commends the dead to God’s merciful love.  During our funeral rites, especially at the celebration of the Eucharistic sacrifice, the Christian community affirms and expresses the union of the Church on earth with the Church in heaven in the one great communion of saints.  The celebration of the Christian funeral brings hope and consolation to the living.  While proclaiming the Gospel of Jesus Christ and witnessing to Christian hope in the resurrection, the funeral rites also recall to all who take part in them, God’s mercy and meet the human need to turn always to God in times of crisis, while we hold each other in prayer.  Your first step is to contact us with the details of the deceased.  If you have not already done so, please complete the Funeral Contact Form.  Then download the Funeral Planning Sheet that is located further down this page.

Funeral Procedures and Protocol

St. Anthony of Padua Catholic Church is staffed from 9:00 am to 3:00 pm Monday through Thursday, 9:00 am -12:00 noon on Friday.  When the parish office is closed, please follow phone prompts for an emergency.  The on-call priest will respond to the call as soon as possible.  Please complete the Funeral Contact Form, which will also notify the office and priest that you need to speak with us.  

 

Funerals with a Funeral Director

The standard procedure for a funeral at St. Anthony of Padua Catholic Church is that a funeral director (funeral home or mortuary) work with St. Anthony’s parish staff to plan the funeral date/time for the funeral mass and internment (burial).  Funeral directors are very helpful to the parish.  In addition to helping set the date, they also provide valuable assistance with programs, easels and tables for pictures and guest books.  Normally the procedure is that, after news of death, the funeral home is contacted first.  The funeral home will then contact St. Anthony’s to determine possible times and dates for a funeral Mass/Liturgy.  The family will meet with the funeral director and confirm the date/time of the funeral.  At this point, if you have not completed the Funeral Contact Sheet, you should do so.  The system will notify our office that you have completed this form and someone from our office will contact you.  While you are waiting for our call, you can begin completing the Funeral Planning Sheet.      

Funeral Planning Sheet 

The funeral planning sheet is a guide to begin the planning process.  Please print the document and complete as much of the form as you can.  Toward the bottom you will see a list of the Old Testament, New Testament, and Gospel readings.  Click on the verse number to read the full passage. Please select one reading from the Old Testament, one reading from the New Testament and one Gospel reading.  

Recommended Funeral Stipends

The following suggested stipends/fees are based on services rendered by St. Anthony's staff.  [In case of financial hardship, please talk with the parish staff member who is planning the funeral with you.]

  • Sacristan $50.00   
  • Church  $175.00
  • Organist $150.00
  • Cantor $100.00
  • Server $20.00
  • Priest/presider: $200.00*

*While no stipend/fee is expected, families often choose to make a gift as a sign of their appreciation for the pastoral services rendered by the presiding priest and assisting deacon. In addition to the funeral service itself, this may include wake/vigil and burial services. In funerals without a Mass, a deacon usually presides.

Guest Priest/Deacon

If the family of the deceased requests a guest clergy, they must inform the parish staff member who is planning the funeral.  The staff member will inform St Anthony's Pastor to obtain permission.  The family will still work with our parish staff member to ensure that the funeral liturgy is planned according to our customs at St Anthony’s. If the visiting priest or deacon is not clergy of the Diocese of St. Petersburg, they will need to provide a letter of good standing from their diocese before being allowed to celebrate or assist at the funeral.

Vigils / Wakes

St Anthony's does not participate in vigil services.  We focus on the Funeral Mass and Internment.  

Eulogies

The grieving process necessarily includes time to remember the life of the deceased loved one. In the Catholic funeral rite, this is most appropriately done during the time of visitation, or at the Vigil (Wake) Service.  

Since the Funeral Mass is primarily the time for praise and thanks for God's gift of eternal life in Jesus, we do not allow the inclusion of a eulogy at the Funeral Mass.  Please be sure to plan for eulogies at the Vigil (Wake) Service.

Funeral Music Specific to St. Anthony of Padua

The Music Ministry at St. Anthony of Padua Catholic Church extends to you our deepest sympathy.   Music is integral to the funeral rites. It allows the community to express convictions and feelings that words alone may fail to convey. It has power to console and uplift the mourners and to strengthen the unity of the assembly in faith and love. The texts of songs chosen for a particular celebration should express the paschal mystery of the Lord’s suffering, death, and triumph over death and should be related to the readings from Scripture. 

Because music has such a dignified place within the funeral liturgies, at St. Anthony of Padua Catholic Church we presume that our music director and available members of the choir will be assisting at each funeral. Guest musicians or cantors will be considered at the family’s request and could be incorporated into the funeral liturgy according to specific abilities and preferences of each musician or cantor, but must always work in cooperation with our music director.  Please contact the office 352-588-3081 for assistance.

During the final commendation, we will sing a short refrain of “May the choirs of angels come to greet you.”

Our Music Director, Jim Carlo, has compiled a list of suggested funeral music.  Please use this list when selecting your music for the Funeral Planning Sheet.  If you have questions you can speak to the parish office staff member who is planning the funeral or you can email Jim Carlo at music@saopccfl.org.  We are here to help in any way we can.

Suggested Funeral Readings

The following is a list of Scriptures appropriate for use at Funeral Masses. One reading is chosen from the Old Testament, the New Testament, and the Gospel.  

Non-Scripture readings cannot be read in place of these readings.

NOTE: If you click on the reading it will open so that you can read the whole scripture verse.

Old Testament (Select One)

New Testament (Select One)

Gospel (Select One)

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